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    Wednesday, February 03 2021
    Sheila Lacks Joyner

    Posted by: Clarke and Staples Funeral Homes AT 08:17 pm   |  Permalink   |  64 Comments  |  Email
    Praying for peace and comfort for the family.
    Posted by Jackie Crews on 02/05/2021 - 12:41 PM
    Rip sweet lady! You will be missed by so many!
    Posted by Tiffany Seamster on 02/05/2021 - 12:41 PM
    Our condolences and prayers to the family. May your good memories of her help you through this time. RIP Sheila.
    Posted by Virginia and Ron Frost on 02/05/2021 - 12:43 PM
    sheshe was always smiling even through all her pain she never let it show. it was a good lady with a heart of gold. may she rest in peace and fly high. prayers for all the family
    Posted by sharon edmonds on 02/05/2021 - 12:56 PM
    You have always had a beautiful soul and now you are a beautiful angel love you girl.
    Posted by Kim Baughan on 02/05/2021 - 01:00 PM
    I like to send my condolences to the family and friends and prayers
    Posted by Jimmy Phillips and family on 02/05/2021 - 01:12 PM
    I will miss u so much SheShe..You was a Blessing to our family & I'm so glad you was n our life & please give dad & mom a hug 4 us...You was a Wonderful Mom & friend & you was a sister to me.. there is so much more I could say but you knew how much u meant to us & Dylan & ur Dad & u SheShe...
    Posted by cindy bryant on 02/05/2021 - 01:18 PM
    Posted by Angela Previtire on 02/05/2021 - 01:19 PM
    Always enjoyed your company every time you came to the house. Gone far far too soon but your impression has been forever imprinted in so many of us and you will always be loved and never forgotten! Love you Sheshe!
    Posted by Robbie Powell on 02/05/2021 - 01:35 PM
    Sheila, this just isn't real girl. I can't wrap my head around it. You will be terribly missed. My heartfelt condolences go out to your family.
    Posted by Katey Johnson on 02/05/2021 - 01:45 PM
    A great woman taken too early. Prayers to the family.
    Posted by Cliff Elliott on 02/05/2021 - 01:57 PM
    I'm so sorry to hear this.She was so sweet an nice.I knew her when she worked at Kenbrige Medical Center.And she was always so nice.
    Posted by Linda Jones on 02/05/2021 - 02:58 PM
    You were the best gift God gave our family, getting to know such an amazing, loving person who had a heart of gold. I will miss our txts at night😢. No matter what happen you were always there for me and I will always love you. Please give mom, dad and jean kisses for me and try and behave yourself😄. I love you and will miss you so bad😢. Fly high sweet angel
    Posted by Katherine Zava on 02/05/2021 - 04:04 PM
    So very sorry for your loss. May God Keep You Close To His Heart.
    Posted by Wilma Rutledge on 02/05/2021 - 04:15 PM
    I am so sorry about Sheila. May God give you all strength, understanding and peace. Thoughts and prayers Betsy
    Posted by Betsy Newcomb Long on 02/05/2021 - 04:21 PM
    I am so sorry for yalls loss SheShe was my sister n law by marriage but to me she was and will always be my sister. She had the biggest heart and sweetest soul of anyone I knew. Bernard and Gladys y'all raised a wonderful woman and so many people love her and we are truly sorry we pray God gives you all comfort during this time. Fly high Sheshe love you, mean it. Always TT
    Posted by Tina Poe.( TT ) on 02/05/2021 - 04:51 PM
    Sorry for your loss 😔
    Posted by Rodger Evans on 02/05/2021 - 05:20 PM
    Shelia was a very good person. She will greatly be missed. Prayers to the family
    Posted by Lisa Bohannon on 02/05/2021 - 05:27 PM
    I am Disheartened and Saddened to Hear of Loss of a Beautiful and Kind Lady and Mother,,, May the Lord Welcome Her Home to His Arms,,,,, May the Family Find Everlasting Peace.......
    Posted by John S. Osborne on 02/05/2021 - 06:59 PM
    I loved Sheila coming into our office for years with so many funny stories. She loved watching Dylan grow up. You could tell they had such a close bond. She will be missed. Prayers for the family❤️
    Posted by Marcia Oyork on 02/05/2021 - 07:00 PM
    Sheila has always been a good person and friend of mine and my oldest daughter's Godmother. I remember putting Dylan on the bus because she had to work and I was cleaning for her when I went into labor. We worked together at C-Mart in Victoria and can't forget her in those white capris on our fun nights out at Todd's in Crewe.Sending prayers and love 🙏❤
    Posted by Tabby Penland Lester on 02/05/2021 - 07:54 PM
    I am so sorry for your loss. May God Bless You and give you comfort.
    Posted by Mary Ann Cundiff on 02/05/2021 - 07:57 PM
    Prayers go out to the familly. She was once a coworker with me at CMH. Will miss you alot.
    Posted by PeggyBurwell on 02/05/2021 - 08:34 PM
    Sheila and I were friends in middle school she and I shared a best friend and as far as I was concerned Sheila was one of the cool girls in school. She was always kind to me and always made me feel welcome. Later on we hung out again for a short while because our two husbands had found each other. I remember many long nights laughing and talking. We laughed a lot those nights at anything everything and nothing. I will cherish those memories always. And I know she is already sorely missed by all! I will pray for peace to her family and loved ones. My sincerest and deepest condolences to you all.
    Posted by Sandra Sanders on 02/05/2021 - 08:44 PM
    My thoughts and prayers are with the family and sad... god bless
    Posted by Crystal Lewis on 02/05/2021 - 09:04 PM
    I love u untie I can't believe u are gone feels like yesterday u and me joking talking about the old times wish I had more time to tell u I love u and will always love u I miss u so much it kills me to write this I cry every time I close my eyes and I see your face rest easy untie I'll be home soon to hug u again save a spot next to u see u soon love u
    Posted by Joshua Forbes on 02/05/2021 - 09:21 PM
    My condolences an prayers to the family. SheShe was a wonderful person always had a smile on her face every time you saw her. She will greatly be missed by so many. Rest In Peace SheShe ❤️
    Posted by Lynn Inge on 02/05/2021 - 09:51 PM
    Barnard & Gladys, no words can express how you must feel. We have you in our prayers. We are so, so sorry. Put you trust in God at this time, he will help you through this. We love y'all. Gilbert and Joyce
    Posted by Joyce J Lacks on 02/05/2021 - 10:19 PM
    I am so sorry for your loss. May God lift you and give you all the strength that only he can give. prayers to you all. 🙏🏾
    Posted by Sharon Joyner on 02/05/2021 - 10:57 PM
    I grew up with you being a second mama to me and you always knew how to light up a room. You and Dylan have and always will be my family and you will forever be a piece of my life and heart. I love you so much SheShe, Rest Easy <3
    Posted by Amber Powell on 02/06/2021 - 12:13 AM
    Sheshe nothing about this seems real. I can't even begin to explain how absolutely amazing you were. Your heart was bigger than most I know, your smile was infectious and lit up the room. You never knew a stranger but didn't think twice to speak your mind and tell it like it is (my favorite quality about you)I am beyond blessed to have known you, made memories with you,laughed with you, cried with you, called you friend and loved you. I will miss you beyond measure and promise to remember you laughing uncontrollably at the "round table" even after you broke a toe on the bar stool. All my love and prayers going up to your family. Dylan please know our door will forever be open to you as always. Much love until we meet again my friend&#128591;&#10084;&#65039;
    Posted by Tricia Powell on 02/06/2021 - 12:19 AM
    I can remember all those great times as a teenager when you would come with Herb & we'd play golf in the evening at the golf course. You'd use to get so competitive, so many laughs, memories & good times. I'll always be thankful you came into our lives. Rest Easy now, give grandma and papa & Jean a hug for me. &#128153;
    Posted by Boo on 02/06/2021 - 12:22 AM
    RIP beautiful friend! Gone way to soon! My condolences to the family!
    Posted by Chrissy lafoon on 02/06/2021 - 12:44 AM
    God bless you Sheila,and I pray he takes care of Dylan and heals everyone's have all our card player's up there with you so start the game,see you ya bunches
    Posted by Gail Rice Holloway on 02/06/2021 - 01:40 AM
    Shelia has been one of my oldest and dearest friends. We've been through good and bad times but we were always there for one another. I will miss you like crazy but so will everyone else that knew and loved you. My heart breaks for the family but especially Dylan. It's not easy loosing a parent. Sending lots of love to all.
    Posted by Kristy Bailey Elliott on 02/06/2021 - 02:06 AM
    Barnard & Gladys, no words can express how you must feel. We have you in our prayers. We are so, so sorry. Put you trust in God at this time, he will help you through this. We love y'all. Gilbert and Joyce
    Posted by Joyce J Lacks on 02/06/2021 - 09:57 AM
    Posted by CLYDE PATRICK WARD on 02/06/2021 - 10:00 AM
    Posted by CLYDE PATRICK WARD on 02/06/2021 - 10:00 AM
    Dylan, condolences to you and your family. I haven't seen you since middle school but I remember your mannerable and friendly personality. You were always so respectful to your teachers. God's peace and blessings.
    Posted by Wanda Smith Hill on 02/06/2021 - 10:13 AM
    please feel free call ot text we just a call away i am deeply sorry for the lost it hurts to hear her go so soon she i wish I could have more time with her growing siper close with the time we did have together She was the type you would love to have part of your life As my self I deeply agree.enjoyed her being in mine and Josh's daughter life she enjoyed staying the nights and spending time with her ant she she. I am sure everyone else did to just as much as we enjoyed her she is deeply missed loved but shall never be forgotten R.I.P ant SheShe we love you deeply memories I cherish with the time we had together
    Posted by Kristen forbes on 02/06/2021 - 12:43 PM
    Love you my beautiful angel. Prayers for the Lacks family.
    Posted by JESSICA M MCCORMICK on 02/06/2021 - 02:55 PM
    We love you Dylan and we will be here for you anytime you need us for anything. Your Papa is so worried about you. I'm going to try to be there tomorrow. Let everyone know that we are praying for the whole family. So sorry for your lost. Love you&#10084;&#65039; Papa Jordan & Joanna Jordan
    Posted by Joanna Jordan on 02/06/2021 - 03:15 PM
    Dylan, Bernard, Gladys and family may you be given the strength you need in the days ahead. I enjoyed working with Sheila and having her wait on at the doctor's office. May she Rest In Peace.
    Posted by NANCY MARSHALL ALDER on 02/06/2021 - 03:23 PM
    Dylan, son your in our prayers along with the rest of the family. If you need anything you know we are here, no matter what. Me and your Papa loves you &#128158; very much. I'm so so sorry for your lost, Dylan. Your Papa thought alot of your mom it's tearing him up too. I only meet your mom a couple times but one thing I do know she loved you more then anything in this world. Believe me it's going to be hard I just went threw with my mom, but you have loving family that will be here for no matter what. Anytime of the day or night if you need to talk. Love you Dylan &#128149; PaPa Jordan & Joanna Jordan.
    Posted by Kenneth Jordan on 02/06/2021 - 03:29 PM
    Dylan you and your family have my deepest sympathy and condolences. Im so saddened by this. Your mother was a very good friend and she use to babysit me when I was small Will be praying for you & family.
    Posted by Regina Daniel on 02/06/2021 - 04:08 PM
    I am so sorry to hear of y'all prayers are for the family
    Posted by Betty Roark on 02/06/2021 - 07:49 PM
    Sending my prayers and condolences to the family. She will be missed by everyone especially the Class of 92!
    Posted by Kathleen Drummond on 02/06/2021 - 08:24 PM
    So sad to hear of Shelia's passing, praying for peace to the family. Hope your faith can ease some of the pain. RIP
    Posted by Jim and Deborah Nowlin on 02/06/2021 - 08:45 PM
    Prayers for all of the family at this most difficult time. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.She She was a smiling face and blessing to all who met/knew her. She will be greatly missed by so many!
    Posted by Christina Elam on 02/06/2021 - 09:59 PM
    You will be missed by alot of people. You were so sweet to everyone. You never meet a stranger. Fly high til we meet again n watch over us all.
    Posted by Rockxan Melton on 02/07/2021 - 12:14 AM
    SheShe I miss you already. Dylan I knew your mom from work at hospital. HoneyPot SheShe would talk to me and tell me about the fun y'all had together. HUGS and Love y'all Hugs from Lori Lyn Wollenberg to Dylan, HoneyPot and Lacks family!
    Posted by Lori Wollenberg on 02/07/2021 - 03:44 AM
    She She, words can't express how much I will miss you. You were one of a kind. You had the biggest heart. You were with me for the bad times and the good times. You were my shoulder to lean on. I know you are looking down and smiling knowing how many people loved you so much. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Love you always!
    Posted by Ashley Harding on 02/07/2021 - 08:17 AM
    My condolences and prayers to the family ! SO SORRY
    Posted by lucille foster on 02/07/2021 - 10:31 AM
    Shelia will be terribly missed. Heartfelt condolences and, peace and love to all of her friends and family.
    Posted by Bonnie Owen McCormick on 02/07/2021 - 08:50 PM
    A sweet woman to into a beautiful angle you will so be missed prayers for your family
    Posted by Dorothy Terrell on 02/07/2021 - 09:37 PM
    Sorry for your lose Shelia was a wonderful person
    Posted by Laura Barton on 02/08/2021 - 04:13 PM
    You will be forever loved and missed, we had some great times in school I'll never forget those memories, fly high baby girl and know you will always be in our hearts
    Posted by Debra Smith on 02/09/2021 - 12:02 PM
    Sorry for your lose. Shelia was a great lady and could make us laugh. Eric and I will really miss her.
    Posted by Mariann Craigs on 02/09/2021 - 01:15 PM
    My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Fly high SheShe you will be missed love you friend.
    Posted by Shirley J singleton on 02/09/2021 - 01:21 PM
    SheShe you will certainly be missed in the crafting community. Always enjoyed seeing you on the LIVES. My sincere condolences and prayers of comfort for the family. Rest in peace my friend.
    Posted by Kimberly Nolen on 02/09/2021 - 04:15 PM
    I knew this lovely person as SheShe in our design group online. While I never had the chance to meet her in person, SheShe made her way into my friend zone. I enjoyed seeing her comments and input. She will be greatly missed.
    Posted by Melanie Williams on 02/09/2021 - 05:23 PM
    Prayers for the family
    Posted by Buddy Pennington on 02/09/2021 - 07:20 PM
    I will miss her in our wreathing design class. She was so fun and sparked fun conversations. She was a good person. I will miss her and this breaks my heart that this happened. Keeping everyone in my prayers.
    Posted by Darcell Brown on 02/09/2021 - 07:31 PM
    Sending my condolences to Sheila's family at this very sad time.
    Posted by Penny McElheny on 02/11/2021 - 01:10 AM

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    Sheila Lacks Joyner, 47, of Victoria, Va. went to be with the angels on February 3, 2021. She is survived by her son, Dylan McKinely Jordan; her fiancé, Hugh Womack; her Parents, Bernard G. and Gladys H. Lacks; two brothers, Eddie G. Lacks and Thomas B. “Tommy” Lacks; paternal grandmother, Ophelia P. Lacks and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews. Sheila was a 1991 graduate of Central High School. She enjoyed arts and crafts and hanging out with family and friends. She loved all her nieces and nephews and all babies. The family will receive friends Saturday from 5 to 7PM at the Clarke Funeral Home in Kenbridge. Social distancing and mask will be required, limited number of guest in the funeral home at one time. Graveside services will be held 2PM Sunday, Feb. 7, 2021 at the Lack’s Family Cemetery, 4452 Poorhouse Road, Victoria, VA. In lieu of flowers please consider donations to: Victoria Church of God, 1606 Norfolk Avenue, Victoria, VA. 23974

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